Celebrating 95 Years!

 

Cousin Ira Blount and me on his 95th birthday, August 17, 2013

Yesterday, I met my cousin Ira P. Blount of Washington, DC for the first time. What was especially wonderful about yesterday was that it was his 95th birthday.  Yes, he turned 95 years young! Cousin Ira’s maternal great-grandmother, Sue Barr Beckley (1812 – c.1890), and my great-great-grandfather, Pleasant “Pleas” Barr (1814 – 1889), were siblings – the children of Lewis & Fanny Barr who were born in Abbeville, South Carolina.  The story about our family’s saga of separation during slavery and reuniting 150 years later is told in 150 Years Later, Broken Ties Mended.

Cousin Ira and I had been communicating online for about 10 years. Yes, he enjoys getting on the computer, researching the Internet, etc. when most folk his age are afraid of computers! My recent move to the Washington, DC area afforded me the opportunity to finally meet him in person. Our meeting was especially spiritual for me because he is the last surviving grandson of Cannon Beckley, whom my great-grandfather William “Bill” Reed (son of Pleas Barr) had a close relationship with while they were enslaved on Dr. William H. Barr’s farm in Abbeville, So. Carolina and before the family was split apart in 1859; they ended up in different parts of northern Mississippi without having knowledge of each other’s whereabouts.  An elderly cousin, the late Cousin Isaac “Ike” Deberry, Sr., shared with me that Grandpa Bill Reed talked about Cannon quite often. Cousin Ike had erroneously assumed that Cannon was his brother, but they were first cousins.  Sitting and talking with Cannon’s last surviving grandson on his 95th birthday was essentially another spiritual reunion between Grandpa Bill and his brother-like cousin, Cannon. 

 Cousin Ira’s grandfather, Cannon Beckley, with most of his 20 children and grandchildren. Cousin Ira’s mother Irene is in the picture. This picture was taken in 1900 in Pontotoc County, Mississippi.  Picture courtesy of Diane Beckley.

Cousin Ira is indeed a remarkable man.  Born and raised in Memphis, Tennessee in 1918, he always carried a passion for artistry and reading. He shared with me yesterday that his love for reading was instilled by his parents, Clyde & Irene Beckley Blount. Cousin Ira shared that his mother worked for a wealthy white family in Memphis. When they wanted to get rid of their books and magazines, they gave them to his mother. She often totted those books on the streetcar home to give to her sons for them to read. Cousin Ira cherished those books, and he shared how his father always encouraged them to educate their minds and reach for greater heights.  After graduating from high school in Memphis, he attended Tuskegee Institute.

After serving in the Army for a number of years, Cousin Ira moved to Washington, DC in 1945. He shared with me how he was so impressed with all of the history in the area and the vast amount of cultural activities.  He became a self-taught artisan, and his passions included wood carving, quilting, calligraphy, and basket weaving. He recently donated a lot of his crafts to the Anacostia Community Museum.  Cousin Ira has been praised here in DC for his wonderful art work and crafts; he has taught various craftsmanship classes at shelters, schools, and art centers throughout the DC area.  He was even featured in the Washington Post, October 17, 1998. 

Cousin Ira is a humble, independent man who doesn’t like a lot of accolades, but I just couldn’t help but to give “flowers” to someone so deserving of it.  Don’t wait until funerals to express how special someone is. Give it to them while they are still alive. 

Photo clippings from the Washington Post, Oct. 17, 1998, Photos by Ross D. Franklin

The Family Picture: A Black History Month Treat

The Cannon Beckley Family, Pontotoc County (College Hill), Mississippi, taken in 1900

Shared by Diane Beckley

On February 7, 2013, my cousin, Diane Beckley of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, posted this wonderful picture on Facebook. This picture was of her great-grandfather, Cannon Beckley of Pontotoc County, Mississippi, with his young wife, children, and grandchildren. Immediately, Cousin Francis Bailey, another great-granddaughter, dated the photograph when she stated, "That's the photo where my grandmother, Lillian Beckley Wheeler, was still in vitro -- her mother was expecting her, and Aunt Eugenia, the absolute last of the clan, hadn't even been thought about." Lillian was born on July 6, 1900, and Eugenia was born in 1902.

Cannon Beckley was born into slavery near Abbeville, South Carolina in 1840 on Rev. William H. Barr’s farm. Barr’s son, William Barr Jr., later took Cannon, as well as his parents, siblings, grandmother, and others, to Pontotoc County in 1859. There in Mississippi, Cannon married twice, to Lucy Black and later to Eliza Weatherall, who collectively gave him a total of 20 children, born from 1865 to 1902. Taken in the year 1900, this picture is him with most of the 20 children, as well as several grandchildren. Cannon died in the College Hill community of Pontotoc County three years later in 1903.

Before 1999, I knew absolutely nothing about Cannon and the Beckleys. I did not have the slightest clue that these people were my relatives.  However, I had knowledge that my mother’s paternal grandfather, William “Bill” Reed of Senatobia, Mississippi, was born into slavery in 1846 in Abbeville County, South Carolina. I also knew that he was separated from a number of family members during slavery, including his father, Pleasant, a name he gave to his youngest son, my great-uncle Pleasant "Pleas" Reed.  The oral history that Grandpa Bill Reed passed down was that he was born a Barr, as he was born on a farm owned by a Barr Family in South Carolina, but he was later sold to a Reed, hence the reason why his last name became Reed.  These important tidbits of history about Grandpa Bill was known throughout the family, especially by family elders who had the fortune of knowing Grandpa Bill personally before he died in 1937 at the old age of 91. He would love to tell stories about his early life in South Carolina underneath his sycamore tree.

However, 1999 was the pivotal year. That was when I figured out that William Barr Jr. and his mother Rebecca Reid Barr of Abbeville, South Carolina had first "owned" Grandpa Bill during slavery, before selling him to her nephew, Lemuel Reid, in 1859.  I obtained a copy of the will and estate records of Rebecca’s late husband, Rev. William H. Barr, from the South Carolina Department of Archives and History in Columbia. The estate record contained a slave inventory, dated March 14, 1843, three years before Grandpa Bill was born (see below). However, not only did the inventory contained my great-great-grandfather, Pleasant Barr, but my late cousin Isaac Deberry Sr. (1914-2009), a grandson of Bill, immediately recognized the name Cannon on the inventory. He exclaimed, "Cannon was his brother! Grandpa talked about him all the time! They were close when Grandpa was on the Barr place" (paraphrasing).

The Slave Inventory from Rev. William H. Barr’s estate, March 14, 1843, Abbeville County, S.C.

Abbeville County Probate Court Records. The Probate Records of William H. Barr, 1843. Box 14, Package 291, Frames 322-330, Roll #AB.6.

Turns out, Cannon was actually his first cousin, not brother, whom he was forever separated from in 1859 and never saw again. Grandpa Bill Reed never knew that Cannon and other family members, including their grandmother Fanny Barr, were living just 75 miles east of him near Pontotoc, Mississippi when he, his younger sister Mary, and others were enticed to migrate to near Senatobia, Mississippi around January 1866, shortly after becoming free. As oral history stated, an unknown man told them that “Mississippi was the land of milk and honey with fat pigs running around with apples in their mouths!”

So I continue to look at this picture with fascination. I am still in awe. Grandpa Bill’s long-lost, brother-like first cousin Cannon, whom he never forgot, planted the roots of a large family in Pontotoc County, as well as Cannon’s brothers, Edmond, Jacob Jr., Clay, and Lewis Beckley, who was named after their maternal grandfather, Lewis Barr. These five Beckley brothers became known as “The Beckley Five,” who were the sons of Grandpa Bill’s father’s sister, Sue Barr Beckley. Aunt Sue had a total of 12 children. I never thought in a million years that I’d be able to see a grand picture like this of Cannon and his big family. 

This discovery story of family separation, triumph, and reunion is told in 150 Years Later: Broken Ties Mended.