Monday, November 3, 2014

DNA Does It Again – Another Long Lost Sibling Found!

DNA is un-freakin-believable! Excuse my language. Recently, the ancestors have truly been showing out and in a mighty great way! This morning, I got a message from Alisa Williams, one of my DNA matches in 23andMe. Alisa shares 51 cM (0.69%) on 4 segments with my mother and 42 cM (0.57%) on 3 segments with me. She has been in our relative databases for over a year, but I hadn't been able to figure out how we are related. When she informed me that her family has no knowledge of her maternal grandfather, I had predicted that we’re related through this unknown person. Boy, I was wrong!

Well, Alisa informed me that her mother's 23andMe results were completed. Lo and behold, we don't match her mother. Therefore, our connection is on her father's side. Her father's family is from Ouachita County (Camden) and adjacent Columbia County (Magnolia), Arkansas; they have been in that area since slavery. So how in the world could we be this closely related when I don't have any knowledge of family members being in that part of Arkansas? 

Thankfully, Alisa has a family tree on 23andMe. I investigated it again, and the strongest possibility was her paternal great-great-grandfather, Henderson Ellis. Born around 1850, his birthplace was reported as Mississippi. Henderson appeared to also have had two siblings in the area: Henry Ellis, born c. 1855, and their widowed sister living with Henry named Caledonia Payne, born c. 1852. Mississippi was reported as their birthplace, too. Hmmmm……

But, what really caught my attention was the name CALEDONIA. It was a family name. I'd discovered that my 3rd-great-grandmother, Margaret "Peggy" Milam, had a sister named Caledonia. Even two of Grandma Peggy's daughters gave that name to their daughters. Then, it dawned on me! I had seen the Ellis surname while researching Edward Warren, the previous enslaver of Grandma Peggy, her three siblings, Random, Sam, and Caledonia, and their parents, Adam and Sarah. I explained this discovery in this April 2012 blog post, Name Discrepancies Can Often Lead to More. I re-investigated my records, and my mouth dropped! A preponderance of evidence strongly indicates that Aunt Caledonia was likely the mother of Henderson, Henry, and Caledonia Jr.! Grandma Peggy had also followed a tradition of giving a daughter the same name as her.

I will present the preponderance of documental evidence, in conjunction with the DNA evidence, as “puzzle pieces.” Here's how those pieces of this genealogical puzzle fitted perfectly. Some of these are recaps from the aforementioned blog post.

PUZZLE PIECE 1: 1839 Slave Bill of Sale, Edward Warren, Marshall County, Mississippi

This bill of sale dated August 14, 1839 is how I found Grandma Peggy Milam and her family before she and her brother Sam were eventually sold to Joseph R. Milam of present-day Tate County, Mississippi around 1845. Edward Warren fell on hard times and decided to sell his slaves to pay off some debt.

. . . the party of the first part (Edward Warren) do hereby bargain sell and confirm to the party of the second part (James W. Briscoe) all the following described property to wit: six negroes viz; Adam aged about 55 years, Sarah aged about 40 years, Sam aged about 14 years, MARGARET aged about 10 years, Calidonia aged about 8 years, Random aged about 23 years and one half of the growing crop of cotton in cultivation by the party of the first party...

PUZZLE PIECE 2: 1840 Census, Edward Warren, Marshall County, Mississippi

Oddly, several months later in 1840, Ed Warren was counted in the census with six slaves who closely matched the six in the 1839 bill of sale (except for Calidonia but close). 

PUZZLE PIECE 3: Probate Records for Edward Warren, 1842 (Source: Marshall County Probate Records, 1839-1846, vol. 2-3)

Ed Warren died two years later in 1842. He died intestate (without having made a will), but I fortunately found his probate records on Documents in his probate records confirmed that Ed was still in possession of those six people in 1840 because his probate record included four of them in 1842 – Adam, Sarah (also recorded as San), who was identified as Adam’s wife, Random and Calidonia.

Inventory of Edward Warren’s estate, Nov. 3, 1842
Negro girl Caladonia, $350”, “Negro man Random, $500”, “Adam & his wife San, $200”

PUZZLE PIECE 4: Probate Records for Edward Warren, 1846 (Source: Marshall County Probate Records, 1845-1849, vol. 4-5)

These following two probate documents show Caledonia, RandomAdam and Sarah being placed for sale from the estate in 1846. The last document shows E.J. ELLIS paying $120.50 for Adam and Sarah. The records weren't entirely clear on who purchased Caledonia, but Ellis appeared to have been the purchaser of Adam, Sarah, and Caledonia. Random was sold to Notley Warren Briscoe.

Cash record of E.J. Ellis…Amt of sales of slaves Adam and Sarah . . . $120.50

PUZZLE PIECE 5: Marriage record and 1850 DeSoto County, Mississippi Census (Who was E.J. Ellis?)

In, I found the marriage record for Erasmus J. Ellis to Susan WARREN, Feb. 4, 1841, Marshall County, Mississippi. Susan was Edward Warren's daughter! This online source from a Warren descendant also verified this. In 1850, Edward's widow, Elizabeth Warren (age 75), lived with Erasmus and Susan Ellis in DeSoto County, Mississippi.

The Ellis Family left Mississippi after 1850. Guess where they relocated?! DRUM ROLL, PLEASE!!!! Yes, the Ellises migrated to Ouachita County (Camden), Arkansas! Undoubtedly, they took Aunt Caledonia and her children with them!

PUZZLE PIECE 6: 1858 Land Record, Ouachita County, Arkansas (Source: U.S. General Land Office Records, 1796-1907,

Erasmus J. Ellis purchased 37 acres of land in Ouachita County, Arkansas on May 3, 1858.

PUZZLE PIECE 7: 1860 Slave Schedule, Ouachita County, Arkansas - E.J. Ellis

E.J. Ellis was the only white Ellis slave-owner in Ouachita County. He had 29 slaves who were housed in 3 slave houses. His 28-year-old female slave closely matched the profile of Aunt Caledonia, who was noted as being 8 years old in August, 1839.

I can't help but wonder if Grandma Peggy Milam was aware that her sister Caledonia and her children were taken to Arkansas around 1858. Did they see each other again after slavery? Chances are high that they never saw each other anymore. However, 156 years later, their great-great-great-grandchildren, Alisa and I, found each other through DNA technology. Our DNA match and a paper trail led me to Aunt Caledonia's whereabouts!

Ironically, Mom and Alisa share more than the typical range of DNA for 4th cousins once removed. I am not surprised because I have always felt that Mom resembles and has a lot of DNA from her maternal grandfather's mother, Lucy Milam Davis (1846-1927), who was Grandma Peggy's oldest daughter. And folks say that I favor my great-grandfather, John Hector Davis (Lucy's son and Peggy’s grandson). See below. And the picture after that is how I feel now! J


  1. I am so excited for you being able to pinpoint how you match your relative. Congratulations, great story.

  2. Excellent work, Melvin! And the resemblance is amazing.

  3. Congratulations on solving another genealogy puzzle. You are an inspiration.

  4. Fascinating story! Congratulations on being able to connect your lines!!

  5. Great Story, I wonder if are related as I am researching the Miller's from Spartanburg,SC as welll

  6. Very cool. My daughters grandfather is an Ellis from Camden, Arkansas. The picture you posted kind of reminds me of him. I wonder if she is related? Well we're going to do the DNA test thing too.


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